Our traditional and rich Iranian culture comes with some limitations. As a new generation, Iranian singles should learn how to mix the amazing cultural considerations with the modern world and new trend of Iranian online dating. Iranian singles might not have their parents’ approval or support when they tell them about how they found their Iranian partner on an Iranian dating site. However; their disapproval is normal and there’s no need to freak out. Obviously there’s a generation gap and they might not be familiar with how an Iranian online dating website works. Iranian singles can easily bring their parents on board through providing information about online dating and its endless potentials. Their parents always want the best for their children and they will be supportive once they assure their precious princess or prince will be safe and well treated on these sites.

What Iranian singles should do before meeting their partners’ parents

Before meeting parents, Iranian singles should ask themselves at what stage is their relationship and where are they planning to take it? Can this Persian girl or Persian boy be their future soul mate? Also it’s important that Iranian singles know each other fairly well prior to meeting with parents as they should be prepared to answer questions about each other. This allows parents to determine how well they know each other and what their true intentions are. If they provide well thought answers to these questions it will facilitate the future relationship of their partner with their family.

Meeting their partner’s parents for the first time can be the scariest thing for Iranian singles. They should not put any extra pressure on themselves and instead be calm and try to enjoy the process. It is said “First impression is the last impression” therefore; Iranian singles should not forget to play their cards right otherwise they might not get a second chance.

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Iranian singles and meeting parents

First meeting is not all about them knowing Iranian singles. Smart Iranian single need to know them as well.  So they should  not be shy and ask their questions freely but politely. This will show them the interest in getting to know each other is mutual and will make them more comfortable.

While Iranian singles prepare to meet the parents, it’s the best practice if they collect some information about the future in-laws as well. Their partner can help with this. They should educate themselves about what the parents like or dislike, their hobbies and their interests. This information will help Iranian singles to know them better and have a better idea on how to hold a natural conversation and not lose their interest.

Everybody likes to receive a gift. Buy separate gifts for the father and mother of their partner and put a hand written note on the gifts. Hand written notes go a long way! It shows how much Iranian singles care!

Iranian girls need to dress a little bit conservative when meeting their partner’s parents for the first time. They should avoid wearing revealing dresses. The need to dress in a way to show their true personality and character. Something comfortable will boosts up their confidence. For Iranian men it is much easier. They should stay positive, well groomed, nice, and clean.

Culturally Iranian singles’ parents are very conservative and do not budge on anything when it come to their children. So Iranian singles should watch every minor move, be polite, confident, and complement them as they get to know them. Having a good first meeting with their partner’s parents not only facilitates their future relationship but also makes their Iranian date so proud of them.

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